i mean, if you are a straight man its fine to like 2 women fucking obviously. Not liking to see 2 men is also fine as long as you dont treat lesbian sex as object of pleasure (like, they "cant be a real couple" or it is "just for the fun" as if it cant be a real relationship), the same goes for gay sex on the other hand as objects of hate or disgust. It fine to like or not like, its your meat to be jerked by what you choose, the same as they choose their partners. Objectification is the issue.
But "im not homophobic" is just dumb to say, like, if you are not why are you saying it like that? Just say whatever you have to say, if you werent you wouldnt say it like and homophobe would, right? Also, why do we care if you like lesbain sex rather than gay sex, you could just say that, without the homophobe part, or just jerk and not say anything at all.
Not defending that guy bcs I'm not sure what he exactly meant, but not finding gay sex or just man in general appealing is not homophobic. Everyone has preferences. I don't like seeing man do gay stuff so I don't watch that kind of stuff and that's okay. The problem is when you start saying that someone Can't be in a gay relationship which I don't think he said anything about.
I'm not saying you can't dislike gay sex. I'm just saying that there are a lot of people who use finding lesbian sex hot as a bait so that it's harder for people to call them out as homophobic. The comment just reminded me of what some people say to get away with being homophobic.
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See im not homophobic i just don't like seen men do it with each other women on the other hand its hot
i mean, if you are a straight man its fine to like 2 women fucking obviously. Not liking to see 2 men is also fine as long as you dont treat lesbian sex as object of pleasure (like, they "cant be a real couple" or it is "just for the fun" as if it cant be a real relationship), the same goes for gay sex on the other hand as objects of hate or disgust. It fine to like or not like, its your meat to be jerked by what you choose, the same as they choose their partners. Objectification is the issue.
But "im not homophobic" is just dumb to say, like, if you are not why are you saying it like that? Just say whatever you have to say, if you werent you wouldnt say it like and homophobe would, right? Also, why do we care if you like lesbain sex rather than gay sex, you could just say that, without the homophobe part, or just jerk and not say anything at all.
That is homophobia. Just with the sprinkle of treating sapphic relationships like just a hook up when they’re real relationships.
Not defending that guy bcs I'm not sure what he exactly meant, but not finding gay sex or just man in general appealing is not homophobic. Everyone has preferences. I don't like seeing man do gay stuff so I don't watch that kind of stuff and that's okay. The problem is when you start saying that someone Can't be in a gay relationship which I don't think he said anything about.
I'm not saying you can't dislike gay sex. I'm just saying that there are a lot of people who use finding lesbian sex hot as a bait so that it's harder for people to call them out as homophobic. The comment just reminded me of what some people say to get away with being homophobic.