how's y'all's dating life and if so are they going good?
and what did you meet up on in person or dating app?
and if it didn't go well go ahead and tell ME
And those who don't uhhh have fun jerking it to whatever you jerk it to.
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how's y'all's dating life and if so are they going good?
and what did you meet up on in person or dating app?
and if it didn't go well go ahead and tell ME
And those who don't uhhh have fun jerking it to whatever you jerk it to.
It feels real nice when I pick up my girlfriend from the kindergarten because she must be tired after teaching there all day.
eh, its alr
but people immediately avoid me cuz im, too nerdy. okay, i play 40k, and not the videogames. So what? That just means my kriegsman can INVADE your slaaneshi caves
Let me preface this by saying I’ve been on good terms with my ex and we talk regularly. Additionally, I broke up with her about two years ago because she has a condition that makes it so that she cannot withstand any form of vaginal penetration without intense pain, which at the time made me believe that I would be sexually incompatible with her, leading me to break up with her because I could see myself in the future desiring more and wasn’t sure if I could come home to her every day without feeling like I was holding back a part of my desires and myself. This is a decision I’ve very much so come to intensely regret.
She texted me today about how she cheated on her current bf last night. Thankfully, it’s not like she doesn’t feel guilty or anything, and she broke up with her current bf today. Tbh though, I’m not sure how to take this. I’m not over her, as much as I would like to be, and now I’m simultaneously faced with this character flaw, one which I fundamentally cannot myself accept, as well as hints that she may be open to trying again with me.
For me, she is the only person I’ve ever had a meaningful romantic connection with, the only one I’ve been able to completely be myself with. A couple of months ago, I would’ve given everything up if it meant I could be in her arms. But I don’t know how to reconcile this with what she’s done. I cannot condone it, even if she regrets it, yet is it something I’m able to forgive? Would it give rise to anxiety in a relationship together, anxiety that she might do the same to me? Could I still continue, knowing this?
We talked for the last couple hours. At some point, I finally told her how I’ve been feeling over the last few years, and how I feel now. Honestly, it was… fine. There weren’t hurt feelings or dramatic confessions or anything. We just talked.
I think finally now I’m ready to move on from a year and a half of guilt, regret, longing, and self loathing. I think I feel a little lighter
Take my advice with a grain of salt, of course, because ultimately, you’re the only person who can decide what’s right for you. But personally, I think you should be very cautious about opening yourself up to that relationship again.
It’s clear that she means a lot to you, even after nearly two years, and I don’t think there’s anything wrong with still loving someone or regretting how things ended. However, you have to separate your feelings for her from the question of whether getting back together would actually be good for you. The fact of the matter is that she cheated on someone she was still in a relationship with and while her regret is good it doesn’t undo what happened. And while I don’t think one mistake necessarily defines someone’s entire character, I do think it’s reasonable to question what led her to make that decision in the first place. If you were to get back together, you would have to consider the possibility that you could find yourself in the same situation someday. That doesn’t mean she will cheat on you, but it’s a possibility that you would have to live with.
I think you also need to ask yourself whether you want to get back together because you genuinely believe the two of you could build a healthy relationship, or because you regret losing her and want another chance to make things right. They might be similar but they aren’t the same thing. i’m not saying you should never give her another chance, because I don’t know her well enough to make that judgment, and people are capable of learning from their mistakes. But I am saying that you shouldn’t let the fear of losing your only meaningful romantic connection so far keep you from considering whether this is actually what you want for your future.
Thank you. I don’t believe we’re headed in that direction now, for better or worse, and I wasn’t able to read this before the conversation she and I just had, but it’s still reaffirming. I’m a very logically inclined person, and I have a somewhat hard time reconciling that with my emotions, so thank you, for confirming at least a few of the conclusions I did/have now come to.
I am a proud lesbian lady. I've known my girlfriend for some years but our relationship is about 3 months old only. No, she doesn't know about this site.
【To Readers of this forum】
【Next time when u cross eyes with your partner, do backflip, if u can't u must hug them and kiss tightly】
I don't have a dating life for I like to be chill with everyone who isn't homo but I'm not that type to be full on zest just chill.
You don't fuck with homoless people?
Spent 2 hours talking about random Fallout lore with her
it was nice
i've been in a relationship for almost 5 months now, yes they knows about this site, they might even make an account (much later tho)
I was asked out yesterday. I declined it. I'm too cautious for my own good. but she had that look to her, you know the one thats like 'i dont actually like you I just want to see how you react' type look
Turns out she tested me. Background; she suddenly didn't texted me and I got concerned.
I went to the place where I always go and I saw her. She saw me but with a face of "what.". So I went to her and she spontaneously happily goes 'what you doing here?'
Where I said; "You alright?"
'yeah yeah I'm fine'
"you got a new phone?"
'yes' She dropped her phone while trying to show me, which was not a new phone
'Are you alright' I was not, wanted to cry but couldn't
'Well I gotta go, Manager wants me' She happily works there
Building has an elevator. Was about to leave, so I said "you going with the elevator? she said yes so I said "I'm going with the stairs"
The end
wanted to vent it out, sorry
welp, met my bf at the gym during august or so and we chatted through dih cord
it went well and uhh he moved to my apartment. honestly pretty mundane except on the bed uwu
What would you say was more surprising him on the bench or him hitting your bench?
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Today I told my cousin that I like her. Of course, I wasn't expecting a relationship or a response; I just wanted to express it because I knew I'd regret it if I kept it inside.she understood. (It was an interesting but relieving experience.)
tell yo cousin I like her too