I always believed in soulmates and I still do, but since I turned 18 I stopped believing in love in my life.
I like romance and horror, but now romances make me suffer in a way that horror never did.
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You still believe in love?
Mon, 02/03/2026 - 11:20
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Thu, 05/03/2026 - 00:08
#3
Honestly yeah. Life’s gonna throw a whole fucking lot of curveballs at you and it’s ok to be afraid. Like I said once, “Sometimes fear is the appropriate response.”
Wed, 04/03/2026 - 17:33
#4
Mental gymnastics man. If you have the motivation and are willing to put in effort then in the end it's worth. But managing it when you're not in the right headspace is a bitch
Wed, 04/03/2026 - 16:06
#5
Love isn’t something you find, it’s something you decide not to give up on. So yes believe in love but not as a promise,but as a choice we keep making.
Wed, 04/03/2026 - 22:06
#13
Its not about believing its just a way animals find an excuse to breed most of the time and their body is supporting it by pushing the right hormones/chemicals in the brain
Its a fact it exists but love cant last without gaslighting yourself into doing so
Thu, 05/03/2026 - 03:02
#16
Yes, there are drivers, but the problem is that you limit all of humanity to hormones and neurotransmitters. We create societies in which love rejects superficiality. If I marry someone, my body will motivate me to have relationships with other people to increase my genetic makeup, but we rationally choose to love even when anatomy tells us otherwise.
If someone doesn't do that, it's not considered love.
Mon, 02/03/2026 - 15:33
#17
It's the nature of love that you can't experience it without also making yourself vulnerable. I'm sorry you were hurt.
Mon, 02/03/2026 - 15:26
#19
Ive been with my girlfriend for almost 5 years now, known her for even longer
It happens, but until it does yeah its gonna feel like you're always doomed to be lonely,
I cant give the best advice on how to deal with it because all i did was smoke pot until i forgot abt it which, in all fairness was awesome but i heavily reccomend against
It can happen though, itll truly just hit you out of the blue when it does,
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It's the nature of love that you can't experience it without also making yourself vulnerable. I'm sorry you were hurt.